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Welcome to my blog. This blog will discuss the various social issues, norms, and trends occuring in Hong Kong. This is from my own personal perspective and observations. Please be advised this blog may offend certain audiences. Please feel free to comment. Enjoy!!!

Sunday, January 20, 2013

Huh? Native English Speaker can be ethnically Chinese too?

Native English Speakers in Hong Kong.


No! Not All Native
English Speakers Are White.
What defines a Native English Speaker?

An individual who speaks English as their first language since birth and continues to speak English on a daily basis throughout childhood till adolescence.

There is a high demand for Native English Speakers/ Teachers for schools, tutoring centers, and after school programs in Hong Kong.

However, the demand is limited to specific target group. You have to be Non-Asian. So, even if you are a russian/ german, or anything that looks non-asian, you are perceived to have native English ability(So sad). Schools supposedly have to abide by the law in not racially discriminating qualified candidates. They  include in their job post that they are equal opportunity employers. However, they some times require a photo of you when you apply for the position just to see if you are non-asian.

WHY DO Hong Kong People DO THIS?

1. Status/ Face
2. Credibility
3. Ignorance

1. Status or Face is one of the most fundamental aspects of Hong Kong society. You always hear the term " lose face". At many schools in Hong Kong, they need to promote their business, and they believe having a non-asian teacher to teach their course will attract parents to bring their child to their school.  So the schools will do what ever is necessary. After all, its a business. If you are not non-asian, the chances are they won't even give you a chance no matter how qualified you are.



2. Credibility- Having a non-asian teacher at your school gives your school more credibility in your school. They can be a trailer trash white hick, and the schools will hire them just because...they have blond hair and blue eyes.





3. Ignorance- Many Hong Kong locals are ignorant. They don't understand that there are people in the world who look asian that were born and raised outside of Asia with Native English speaking ability.  Truthfully, I don't blame the locals because they have never been outside of Hong Kong. They just don't know.

How do we fix this?

Hong Kong is such an international city, but most are still ignorant in many ways. This is probably due to the information they receive from news, internet and media. We need to inform society and educate them.

People need to understand that there are people out there just like Jeremy Lin. Probably a lot more than you know. There are native English speakers that do not speak any Chinese at all.

Found an interesting article on:

http://www.asianweek.com/011499/coverstory.html




Strained Relations


Why Chinatown's venerable associations are ending up in court


'The term "juk sing" means "caught between the notch of a bamboo stick" in Cantonese. It's also how immigrants disparagingly refer to their U.S.-born counterparts: those who genetically share the same ethnicity but are seen as being forever caught in the middle, not fully American because of their looks, but not truly Chinese because of their American attitudes and their lack of proficiency in the Chinese language.' 
By Julie D. Soo

"Juk sings" do exist. Many reside all over the U.S.. I'm not referring to the Chinese people who immigrated to  America when they were young. I'm talking about the ones who actually were born and raised in an American Society.  We are not American, British, etc. We are definitely NOT Chinese. 

When I was young, my dad would always ask, " Are you Chinese or American?" I would always tell him that I am American. He thought I was silly because people will always perceive me as Chinese.  However, I don't carry any of Chinese aspects in my lifestyle growing up.  Actually, I resented my Chinese Heritage. However, as I got older I learned to realize that I like cherish my Chinese heritage and that I carry a unique identity.  I am, We are "Chinese-American". We fall into a special category that neither Americans nor Chinese people understand. We have a unique identity that neither side can truly understand. We are Native English Speakers who are ethnically Chinese.


Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Wait, you live by yourself?

From the movie StepBrothers
Back in the United States, it is common to move out of your parents' place once one reaches adolescence. The notion of having your own place is far better than living at home with your parents. Even though not economical, the idea of paying rent is worth the freedom and independence. Moreover, if you haven't moved out of your parents' place by the age of 30, dude, you need to grow up. It is time to move out. Unless you have a legitimate reason, it is odd that you still live in your parents' basement. 
Typical Residential
Buildings in Hong Kong

In Hong Kong, I live alone. However, when people asked me where I lived, and whether I lived alone, a few responses kept occurring,
"What? Why don't you live with your parents?"; "Do you have any family here?"; "Where are your parents?"; "Why are you paying rent?" ; " Wait... you live alone?";"Are you married/ Do you have a partner?"
I don't know the exact statistics but I've noticed a lot local college graduates who are single and still live with their parents. I would say about eight out of ten people  I meet who are single within the age range of 22-40, still live at home with their parents. 

Let's Examine WHY? 
  1. Hong Kong Culture
  2. Affordability Index
  3. Soaring Property Prices
Hong Kong Culture
The Master said, ‘While your
parents are alive, you should not 
go too far afield in your travels. If
you do, your whereabouts 
should always be known.’
Analects IV, 19

If you are single, and have moved out of your parents' tiny 300 square foot apartment, Congratulations! Chances are that you have moved into a 200 square foot apartment all to yourself. Moreover, you probably pay more than half your annual salary. (WOOT) You are a rare outlier. You probably have been to the western part of the hemisphere and understand the idea of parental freedom.

So how does society view you for having your own place? Many will find it odd that you moved out of your parents place and suspect that your relationship with your parents isn't stable. There is this ancient Chinese concept called "Filial Piety". It is the notion of respecting and taking care of your parents when as they get older. I believe this should be emphasized in every society but there will be a day where you need to grow up and venture out on your own. 

In addition, There this other ancient Chinese concept called "Face", or status, which is the aspect of how an individual is perceived by people in the community. Therefore, since people here care about "FACE" (will talk more about this in a future post), its very discouraging for any young adult to move out of their parents' tiny apartment.


Affordability Index

I talked to many people in HK regarding to salary ranges for variety types of professions. They told me the average salary for an entry level college graduate in HK is roughly 10,000HKD -12,000HKD per month. (People can make more at McDonalds in America) 

I couldn't believe it because of how expensive things cost in Hong Kong. So I decided to find out more myself. I found some interesting fun facts on the HK government census website regarding to average Income per individual, property prices, etc. Hong Kong Facts Sheet


The median household income was 18,000HKD per month.  The average price per a square foot is roughly around 10,305. Let's do some basic math. Average HK flat is roughly 400 square feet. 400x 10,305 = Between 4-5 million HKD needed to buy a flat.

18,000 HKD/ Month x 12 months (1 year)= 216,000 (Annual Salary) 

Let's assume we don't need to eat food and we can save every dollar & we dont get any additional raises for the purpose of this calculation:

4,000,000 (Cost of a 400 square Flat)/ 216,000= 18.5 years

So, it would take roughly 18 years to buy a flat. At the age of 22 +18 = 40 years old.

The Hong Kong Government expects the HK people to buy their first flat at the age of 40.

Hai mai gau chor ah? (In Cantonese means 'What the heck?')係咪搞錯啊?

Soaring Property Prices

I was watching the Hong Kong 2012 Review on Pearl for New Year's eve. It had a fascinating analysis on the  property price. According to the show, seems that the main reason for the soaring property prices are from the rising influx of Mainland Chinese immigration in to Hong Kong. Found an interesting chart from this website on HK historical property price.




After 1997, Hong Kong returned to China. Property price drastically declined as shown in the graph. However, after 2003, there were more and more mainland chinese coming in to Hong Kong due to more opportunity. This large influx in population contributed to the rising demand for housing. Although the Hong Kong government passed many laws to try to regulate the housing market, prices of property prices continue to rise. As a result, making them unaffordable and not proportional for those making the typical annual Hong Kong salary. I'll have another post on closer analysis on property prices in the near future.


Bottom Line...

I believe the average Hong Kong individual honestly want independence from their parents. But, they just financially can't do it. In addition, they are obligated to take care of their parents.

There is gradual shift in social norms.

The other day, one of my friends got married. The individual and the fiance makes double the medium household income.I asked, "how are you able to buy your own place? My friend responded, " I'm moving in to my partner's parents' place. "

This represent whats going to happen in Hong Kong if property prices continue to be unaffordable. Many figure whats the point in saving when you can't even buy your own place. In addition, unaffordable property prices is making it more difficult to get married. Married couples are going to move in to their parents' places until they inherit it as their own.

I guess this trend can be viewed positively since Chinese people are all about filial piety and taking care of the parents. You can stay at home and live with your parents and save some money. Why not? Its just the smartest thing to do. If I had the chance, I would'n't live by myself after all...


HAPPY NEW YEARS!!!

Friday, December 28, 2012

"So What Do You Do?"

"So What Do You Do?"

I didn't understand the deeper implication of this question until I arrived to Hong Kong. About 95% of my conversations with expats, locals, and those locals who have studied abroad ended up asking me this question, "so what do you do?" Its been 3 months since my arrival and its difficult to remember the last time when someone who hasn't asked me that question. So, what does this question really mean?

There are a few different scenarios and types of people I've encountered in Hong Kong.

1) The Chauvinistic Arrogant @-holes - These type of individuals ask this question to boost their ego. They want to feel superior. When they ask this question, it makes them feel better. These type of people are waiting for you to ask them the same question in return so they can boast about their accomplishments, fancy titles, and high hierarchal status.

"I am not arrogant. I am just better than you"
Typical Conversation: 
"So what do you do? ... Hmmm, I see... so do you enjoy that? (waiting for the same question to be asked) Well, I am a Investment Banker/ Doctor/ Lawyer."


2) The Social Climbers/ Utilizers- These  type of individuals are trying to find out if you are useful to them. They try to figure out how you can be utilize to their needs in terms of either financial, career, networking, etc.

"Hmm.. How can I make good use of this person" 
Two different typical conversation scenarios: 
1)"So what do you do?... Oh, you are a partner at the Big Four? I have a son who needs a job. Do you know any one that can help me?"  
2) "So what do you do?... Oh, you work at a restaurant? Oh okay. Nice to meet you. "(End Of Conversation)

3) The Flakes- these type of individuals act & perform as if they are trying to be your friends, but they don't really care. They  just want to talk to someone to appear busy, they are just bored, don't want to appear a social outcast, or unsociable individual.

"Ask me again later if I care"


Typical Conversation: "So what do you do? Oh, wow thats amazing! Can you tell me more about it?  Do you want to meet up again for a cup of coffee?" (A few days later, still no call)


4) The Favor Seekers - These type of individuals are willing to help you and care about you. However, they expect something in return. One day, they will ask you for a favor and you are obliged to help them. 


"Since I saved you, you owe me one"


Typical Conversation: "So what do you do? I know someone who runs a company in the same industry as you. I can connect you guys if you want. (Few months later... Hey Bro, I need a favor...)"



Out of the four mentioned above, the most interesting type are favor seekers, which probably consist the most types in Hong Kong. The reason being is because Hong Kong is based on a Chinese element called "GuanXi 关系"  or "relationships". Its very important to people in Hong Kong as Hong Kong is already a small city. It relies on relationships to complete complex tasks. (Will dedicate a whole post on GuanXi later)


Let's try to understand why the social life in Hong Kong is like this. 1)Hong Kong has been colonized for over hundred years by British Rule.  2) Hong Kong was and now is part of China. 3)Hong Kong is the financial hub of Asia. In a very simple analysis, when you combine these factors, you have a super snobby, arrogant, chauvinistic society. You develop a unique culture that wouldn't exist in any other part of the world.

If you have just moved to Hong Kong, or planning to come here, you need to develop a very mature mindset to deal with people who have conformed into the societal norms. Its very easy to get sucked into this type of culture. If you want to be successful or get ahead in Hong Kong, chances are you will conform into societal norms. Its either you are in or out. There is no in between.

Like In the climax of the film Star Wars Episode III: Revenge of the SithDarth Vader says to Obi-Wan Kenobi, "If you're not with me, then you're my enemy." 




After many of you reading this may think why would any one want to live in Hong Kong. For some individuals, they enjoy this type of social lifestyle. While others, they cope with this by seeking individuals similar to themselves. There are many other attractive aspects Hong Kong has to offer such as food, hobbies, etc. Although these are the most common types of individuals you tend to meet in Hong Kong, it doesn't mean that they aren't individuals who don't fall into these categories. You just need to find those who actually doesn't care about what you do.

Thursday, December 27, 2012

Welcome!!

Welcome to my blog. This blog will discuss the various social issues, norms, and trends occuring in Hong Kong. This is from my own personal perspective and observations. Please be advised this blog may offend certain audiences. Please feel free to comment. Stay Tune...